Idioms & Phrases: To Throw One's Mistake In His Face

It is an idiom that means to aggressively or unkindly remind someone of a past error, failure, or fault often during an argument. It is used to provoke guilt, shame, or to diminish someone, usually to make them feel inferior or to win an argument.  It is used to provoke guilt, shame, or to diminish someone, usually to make them feel inferior, or to win an argument by bringing up unrelated past behaviours.  A variation of it is "throw it in my face" or "throw it back in my face."  It is often considered toxic or immature behaviour, designed to turn a conversation into "win/loss situation rather than a constructive discussion.

"Rub  it in" is a relative idiom talking about a mistake.

In Chapter 41 of  Far From The Madding Crowd Bathsheba was reminds her husband Troy of his promises before their marriage. She says that now he is using her errors or failures to get an edge over her.


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